Tiny, free, and very possibly priceless

I recently came across an article written by Viv Groskop entitled “The stranger secret: how to talk to anyone – and why you should.” It appeared in the Social Etiquette section of a well-known online publication. 

Toward the end of the article, Groskop writes, “Is it going to change your life if you talk to someone in a shop about the prospect of rain? Probably not. But in light of the current state of the world, even the slightest possibility of brightening someone’s day is valuable… Small talk is a tiny, free, and very possibly priceless reminder of our shared humanity.” 

As someone who regularly talks with strangers, I know that it’s not just about small talk or social etiquette. It is a spiritual practice that can be challenging or life-giving, and often, both at the same time. 

It’s an opportunity to ask, listen, and learn a little about someone else. But beyond picking up a few facts and perhaps even a point of shared interest, we have the chance to see the dignity and spark of God in each person. Engaging with strangers is part of living out faith in the world – building community, showing compassion, and following the love that Jesus demonstrated through his own encounters with those he met along the way.

The good news is that we have so many occasions to practice! Perhaps this Sunday, or the next time you’re at church, venture into The Commons and strike up a small conversation with someone you don’t know. Another opportunity is to come to a Food is Love Community Lunch at Galilee. Lunches are held on the third Tuesday of each month from 11:30 am – 1 pm.  

Whether it’s a church, Galilee Ministries, or the grocery store, part of the beautiful mystery is that we never know who we’ll meet and what will happen. By being available and compassionately curious, we put ourselves in the way of blessings. 

In service,

Emily+